75 - I Needed to be My Own Hero - Ashley Jones

Episode Summary

In this episode of the First Responder Wellness Podcast, Conrad Weaver talks with Ashley Jones — a seasoned police officer and empowerment coach — as she shares her deeply personal journey through law enforcement and mental health challenges faced by first responders. Ashley opens up about the illusion of brotherhood in the field, the critical need for vulnerability training, and the urgent lack of mental health support in police departments.

With a mission to empower others, Ashley highlights the value of self-reflection, coaching, and leadership that prioritizes well-being. Her story is one of resilience, growth, and purpose — aiming to inspire first responders to recognize their worth and become their own advocates.

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Key Topics Covered

• Ashley's career as a police officer and transition into empowerment coaching

• The emotional toll of law enforcement and the lack of authentic support

• Why vulnerability and emotional intelligence are vital in the field

• The role of personal accountability in mental health and personal growth

• Challenges in leadership and organizational culture within policing

• The transformative power of coaching for first responders

• Ashley’s future goals, including writing a workbook and book to further her mission

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Top Takeaways

• Vulnerability training is essential in law enforcement for building authentic support systems.

• The "brotherhood" concept in policing often lacks depth and true emotional support.

• Personal growth starts with self-reflection, accountability, and a willingness to do the work.

• Mental health resources are severely lacking for first responders — this needs to change.

• Ashley calls for stronger, more empathetic leadership in police departments.

• Self-advocacy is crucial; no one will fight for your well-being like you will.

• Coaching can provide first responders with tools and clarity to manage stress and trauma.

• Ashley is currently working on a workbook and a book tailored to the unique needs of first responders.

• Her mission is to empower others to take control of their mental health journey.

Connect with Ashley

Personal Instagram: warrior.with.grace
Professional Instagram: Pearl Grit Coaching
Website: pearlgritcoaching.com
TikTok: warrior.with.grace.2.0
Lemon8: warrior.with.grace.2.0

 

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